Know Your Kids NG

How can you tell when you are doing too much for your child? For instance, you tie the shoe laces of your 3 year old when you know she can do it herself, because its faster. You clean up your teenage son's room and pick up after him because it seems easier than getting into a fight with him or nagging him. Completing your child's homework for her when she is asleep because she complains its too difficult or boring.  After all, you don’t want her to fail. We all guilty of over-functioning in our relationships at times, particularly with our kids. And we often do it without even realizing it. Unfortunately, the habit of doing things for your kids that you know they can do for themselves sends an indirect message that you don’t have confidence in their abilities. The Result is a children who are dependent, lack self-esteem and problem-solving skills and who can’t or won’t do age-appropriate tasks. This is referred to as ''Learned Helplessness''. They ...

In most cases, Parents who end up yelling do not start out with the intention to scream but in a desperate effort to stop a child from doing the wrong things or stop a negative behaviour, it results in yelling. Simply put, yelling is trying to stop children from doing what you do not like by making them feel bad about themselves or what they are doing. Parents may use verbal intimidation by shouting or yelling; or try to get attention by swearing or cursing at the child; or they may use humiliation, calling the child names like dumb or lazy. Negative Effects of Yelling Unfortunately, yelling hardly gives you any positive result (it doesn't help), it just becomes a " vicious cycle ". C hildren misbehave, parents react with harsh verbal discipline, children react with worsening behaviour, and parents escalate their yelling and criticism. Often the cycle spins out of control. Yelling has a negative effect on the child's emotions. When a parent is constan...

Kids develop Negative Behavioural Patterns/ Bad Habits at a tender age. While some negative behaviour and habits disappear over time, others tend to stick and require some efforts to get rid of them. These unfortunate & annoying  habits may ta int your child's  normal mental and physical development. Understanding Habits As Parents /Guardians , it is essential that we encourage  our kids to get  rid of these undesirable habits  as early as possible. It is true that they are  irritating and annoying, however   we need to first understand why our kids are doing them.  Most often bad habits are formed when a child is stressed, bored, tired, frustrated, unhappy, insecure or falling asleep. They are calming and soothing to the child. Dos and Don'ts Managing them can be difficult, however, in general, you should overlook them because most times they are just "phases" and the child outgrows them. Yelling, pointing it out, blaming, shami...

Do you feel like you are a Loyal Subject and your kid is the King/Queen? Most of your time and energy is channeled towards making them happy and comfortable. Well, I've felt that way more times than i can remember. Taking care of Kids is not as easy as it looks. Perhaps you are one of those parents who think back and wonder how you were able to make it through the day. Kids are precious little bundles however they can be exhausting at times. This is the reason we are appreciative when we come across any splendid idea that makes parenting a little less demanding; a parenting hack that would take some weight off your shoulders. Well thankfully, i came across 28 hacks that make parenting easier and more fun for you and your kids. These hacks are so simple to follow yet they have a considerable measure of effect. You can take some additional minutes to nap or save a little bit more energy for yourself. My 20 month old daughter, Pearl is adorable but a handful. She lo...